This is a rant that I had in my back pocket for a while.Don't you hate liars?!?! I know I do. Its frustrating trying to be an upfront person and the person/people you are dealing with are on some bullshit! You know what kind of liar I hate the most? The ones that lie and they really don't have to. The ones that tell stupid lies like "I'm working on it" (when they haven't even started), "I tried" (when there wasn't any real effort), "I'm here" (when they are actually over there) and so on.
On top of hating liars I become disappointed with them especially when they are close to me and/or when I depend on them. The reason why is I know me. I know that once I lost trust its hard for me to trust them again. I tend to forgive but never forget the feeling. Then whats worse is that I begin to distance myself from the liar.
Its crazy! If you know me at all you should understand that I am a very logical person. I understand when people aren't willing, lazy, just can't, or just don't want to. You should also know that I am a very analytical person. When you aren't willing, I will analyze! When you are just being lazy, I will analyze! When you just can't, I will analyze! When you just don't want to, I will analyze! I don't do it to be a jerk. I do it as an evaluation. I analyze and evaluate. I do it so I can avoid making the same mistake twice if possible. And so far it has worked out well for me.
**NOTICE ALL LIARS**
If you plan on deceiving me in any way, please know that I believe that the truth will come out at some point. Don't waste your time and ruin our friendship, partnership, relationship, or whatever it is. I don't play those games and I really hate to waste my time.
WOW!!! Now let's analyze everything you wrote.
ReplyDeleteA logical person wouldn't spend this much time writing about liars because the truth is we all lie about something at some point in our lives. Why are you so judgmental and analytical through this process of elimination, yes this process of elimination (cutting people out of your life)? You seem much too young to be so bitter. If you live your life always analyzing and evaluating people you will eventually spend a lot of time alone. And that's sad, because you are so handsome. Cut people some slack, everyone isn't perfect and in the end we're all just trying not to get hurt. Good luck!
Thanks for commenting Envy. You are correct about a logical person not spending much time writing about liars because we all lie. But a logical person cannot just accept the fact that a person is going to lie for no good reason. Where is the logic in that? Especially when that person is supposed to be close to you.
ReplyDeleteI am judgmental when situations involve me and analytical because its in my nature. Nobody is perfect but I believe perfection can be attained. And I don't think lack of perfection is an excuse for deceit. Its not necessarily a process of elimination but knowing who I will allow to stay within' my circle. I don't have time nor do I want to waste time on foolishness.
Actually I am not bitter at all but I do have very strong opinions on certain situations. Nobody wants to get hurt, but as some point we will. How we deal with the hurt is how many differ. I just choose to learn from it so I can hopefully not repeat it.
BTW... Thanks for the compliments! :)